Biblical Answer

Can I Still Be a Good Parent if I'm Dying?

The Importance of Parenting

As a Christian, we understand that parenting is a vital responsibility, and it is not defined by our physical presence or longevity. In fact, the Bible emphasizes the importance of parenting and the impact it has on our children's lives. In Psalm 128:1-2, God promises that when we fear Him and live according to His commands, our children will flourish and live a long and happy life. This promise is not limited to physical presence, but rather to the spiritual influence we have on our children. Even if we are dying, we can still be a good parent by being an example of godly faith, teaching our children the gospel, and exemplifying love for all things pure and holy.

The Role of Prayer

As a parent, we are in a war for our child's life, and prayer is the battle plan. We can become prayer warriors and go to battle against the forces of evil on our child's behalf, even if we are dying. This means that we can continue to intercede for our child, asking God to save them, fill them with His Holy Spirit, and guide them in their walk with Him. In Romans 10:9, we are told that if we confess with our mouth and believe in our heart that God has raised Jesus from the dead, we will be saved. As parents, we can pray for our child to have this kind of faith and to call Jesus their Savior.

The Sovereignty of God

It's essential to remember that God is sovereign over all creation, and He is the one who ultimately determines the outcome of our lives and the lives of our children. In Psalm 127:3-5, we are reminded that children are a gift from the Lord, and it is He who establishes the boundaries of our lives. As parents, we can trust in God's sovereignty and know that He is working everything out for our good, even if we are dying. This means that we can still be a good parent, even in our dying moments, by trusting in God's goodness and provision, and by praying for our child's salvation and well-being. By doing so, we can have peace and assurance that our child is in God's hands, and that He will work everything out for their good.