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Overcoming Isolation and Finding Joy in the Simple Things

When we're feeling isolated, it can be challenging to find joy in the simple things in life. Depression and boredom can often accompany isolation, making it difficult to pursue joy. However, joy is not the opposite of depression; it's deeper than depression. We can experience both depression and joy simultaneously, and joy can be a rock that stands firm even in the midst of sorrow. To find joy, we must be willing to look for it and welcome it into our lives, even if it feels like a betrayal of our depression.

The Source of Joy

The source of joy is ultimately God, and it's a fruit of the Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:22). When we recognize that joy comes from God, we're freed to take joy in the things he has blessed. He is the God who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment (1 Tim. 6:17). This means that everything good, including eating, drinking, working, and loving other people, can produce joy. However, it's essential to remember that joy is not self-centered, but it's not merely other-centered either. Joy is a gift from God that we can experience in all aspects of our lives.

Finding Joy in the Everyday

To find joy in the simple things in life, we must be willing to look for it and practice it. Joy is not the explosive happiness of an emotional high, but it's more like a quiet confidence that comes from knowing God. We can experience joy in the midst of suffering, and it's not something that we have to wait for until our circumstances change. We can choose to become experts in joy, and it's possible to find joy in the everyday things, like eating, drinking, working, and loving other people. By recognizing the source of joy and practicing it, we can overcome isolation and find joy in the simple things in life.