Biblical Answer

The Old Testament does not directly address premarital sex. While it does speak to sexual immorality in general, it does not explicitly condemn premarital sex. However, it does emphasize the importance of marriage and the sanctity of the marriage bond. In the New Testament, the assumption is made that marriage should be pursued, and premarital sex is seen as out of place. This assumption is based on the understanding that marriage is a divine institution and that sex is meant to be expressed within the context of marriage.

The biblical evidence suggests that the Bible does not condemn premarital sex. In fact, Jesus' teaching on sex emphasizes that it is for married people, not because God is against sex, but because God is for the well-being and flourishing of humanity. The Bible teaches that sex is a gift from God, meant to be enjoyed within the context of marriage. However, it does emphasize the importance of self-control and purity in one's thoughts and actions. Paul's teaching in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 emphasizes the importance of fleeing immorality and not engaging in sexual sin, but this is not necessarily a direct condemnation of premarital sex.

In the biblical context, premarital sex is seen as a violation of God's purposes for sex. Sex is meant to be a expression of love and commitment between two people who are in a lifelong, monogamous relationship. Premarital sex can lead to a range of negative consequences, including emotional pain, guilt, and shame. The Bible teaches that sexual sin can lead to self-inflicted pain and that it is better to wait for marriage to experience the fullness of God's gift of sex. While the Bible does not directly condemn premarital sex, it does emphasize the importance of living a life of purity and self-control, and of waiting for marriage to express one's sexuality.