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Can I still be a good friend if I'm struggling with my own mental health?

Answer:

Being a good friend, even when struggling with mental health, can be a challenging but rewarding experience. As someone who has worked with people struggling with their faith and mental health, I've seen firsthand how depression can affect relationships. It's not uncommon for people to isolate themselves, reject help, and even push away loved ones. However, it's essential to remember that depression is not a reflection of a person's worth, and it's not their fault.

As a pastor, I've learned that being a good friend to someone struggling with depression requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to persevere. It's not about trying to "fix" the person but rather being present and supportive. When someone is depressed, they may struggle to believe encouraging words, but that doesn't mean they're not worthy of love and care. In fact, it's often in these moments that we can show them the most love and compassion.

I believe that being a good friend to someone struggling with depression means being willing to sit with them in their darkness, to listen to them without judgment, and to offer support without expectation of immediate change. It's about being a steady presence in their life, a reminder that they are loved and valued, even when they can't see it themselves. As someone who has been blessed with a loving family and supportive community, I know that even in the midst of struggles, relationships can be a source of strength and hope.

Sources:

depression
edward welch
practicing the way
john mark comer
why does god allow evil
clay jones
mere christianity
c s lewis

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