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What happens when love turns to dust in our daily lives?
Answer:
As I reflect on my own marriage of 19 years, I've come to realize that love can indeed turn to dust in our daily lives. When Susan and I first got married, we were swept up in the romance and excitement of it all. We thought our love was perfect, and everything was going to be great. But over time, the reality of daily life set in, and the passion that once burned brightly began to fade. Don't get me wrong, we still love each other deeply, but the initial infatuation has given way to a deeper, richer love. I think this is what Gary Chapman means when he talks about the "in-love phase" of marriage lasting only a few months to two years. It's that initial, all-consuming passion that can be intoxicating, but ultimately unsustainable. As the years go by, the imperfections and flaws of our partner become apparent, and the illusion of perfection begins to wear off. It's not that our love has disappeared, but rather that it has evolved into something more mature and enduring. In my experience, this is where the real work of marriage begins. It's not about recapturing the thrill of the early days, but about cultivating a deeper understanding and appreciation for our partner, flaws and all. It's about learning to love not just the idealized version of our spouse, but the real person, with all their imperfections and weaknesses. And it's a journey that requires effort, patience, and a willingness to grow and learn together.
Sources:
mere christianity
c s lewis
history eschatology
n t wright
philippians colossioan philemon
r kent hughes
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
depression
edward welch
sacred marriage
gary thomas
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
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