What happens when love turns to anger in our daily routines when life gets busy?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've seen firsthand how love can turn to anger in our daily routines when life gets busy. When we're not careful, anger can creep in and take over, causing us to lash out at those we love. This is especially true when we're feeling overwhelmed or stressed. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and we've learned that it's essential to address anger quickly, rather than letting it simmer and boil over.

When we're angry, it's easy to get caught up in our own emotions and forget to consider the other person's perspective. But as Scripture reminds us, love is quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). When we take the time to listen to each other and understand where the other person is coming from, we can diffuse anger and resolve conflicts in a more constructive way. My wife and I have learned to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to seek forgiveness when we've wronged each other.

As a father, I've also seen how anger can affect our relationships with our children. When we're angry, we can come across as harsh or critical, which can be damaging to their self-esteem and our relationship with them. But when we take the time to manage our anger and respond in a loving and patient way, we can build stronger, more loving relationships with our kids. My son Joshua and daughter Rebecca are both still young, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to model healthy anger management for them. By seeking to understand and control our anger, we can create a more loving and peaceful home, where everyone feels valued and respected.

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