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Your Question:
Is it selfish to prioritize my own healing over my family's needs?
Answer:
As a pastor of a local evangelical church, I've often reflected on the balance between caring for one's own family and prioritizing the needs of others. While it's true that we have a responsibility to care for those outside of our immediate family, I believe that prioritizing one's own healing over one's family's needs is not inherently selfish. In fact, I think it's essential to recognize that our family is often the first line of defense in showing mercy and compassion. As the Bible says, "Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith" (1 Timothy 5:8). This doesn't mean that we should neglect the needs of others, but rather that we should prioritize the well-being of those who are closest to us. That being said, I do believe that our healing and well-being are often intertwined with our ability to care for others. When we prioritize our own healing, we become more effective at serving and loving others. As a father of two, I've seen firsthand how taking care of myself allows me to be a better husband and parent. So, while it's not necessarily selfish to prioritize one's own healing, it's essential to recognize that our healing is not solely about us, but also about our ability to serve and love others.
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biblical critical theory
christopher watkin
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
systematic theology
wayne grudem
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
gods crime scene
j warner wallace
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
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