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Regaining Your Sense of Self

Regaining a sense of self is a journey of liberation from the old self, which is bound by sin and flaws. This process requires honesty with oneself, acknowledging the presence of sin and flaws, and seeking God's help to overcome them. The first step in regaining your sense of self is to acknowledge your weaknesses and besetting sins. This involves examining your habits, character flaws, and areas where you feel stuck. As the psalmist says, "Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there is any wicked way in me" (Ps 139:23-24). By acknowledging your weaknesses, you open yourself up to God's work in your heart, which can bring about transformation and liberation.

Self-control is a strategic countermeasure to the insatiable cravings of sin. It is a great blessing to have self-control, but it is also a lifelong exercise in faith. Relapses are not uncommon, but with God's help, you can overcome besetting sins and develop self-control. The key to gaining self-control is to focus on Jesus and not on your own efforts. As the Bible says, "Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God" (Heb 12:2). By keeping your eyes on Jesus, you can overcome the obstacles that stand in the way of regaining your sense of self.

To regain your sense of self, you must be willing to let go of your self-awareness and allow God to be your all in all. This means acknowledging your weaknesses and flaws, seeking God's help to overcome them, and focusing on Jesus rather than your own efforts. As you follow this path, you will begin to experience transformation and liberation from the old self. You will become a new creation in Christ, liberated from your sins and flaws. This new self is a work in progress, but with God's help, you can overcome any obstacle and regain your sense of self. By following these steps, you can experience the joy and freedom that comes from living a life that reflects God's character.