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Your Question:
What's the best way to show love to those around us when we're feeling stuck?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've come to realize that showing love to those around us, even when we're feeling stuck, requires a commitment to act and serve in love. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that our feelings of love are the foundation for our actions, but the truth is that actions of love can lead consistently to feelings of love. For me, this means being intentional about showing my love and care for Susan, even when I'm not feeling it. It's not about forcing emotions, but about being present and present in our relationship. One of the ways I've learned to show love to Susan is by being creative and finding situations that make focused attention easier. We plan walks, sit before the fireplace, and go on scenic drives together. Even making an effort to arrange these things is an important sign and expression of love. I also make sure to work on my personal appearance as a gift to her, and we prioritize playfulness and fun in our relationship. Love should be expressed verbally, not just by saying it, but by showing it through our actions. It's not always easy, especially when we're feeling stuck, but I've learned that love is a choice. It's a decision to act and serve in love, even when we don't feel like it. And it's in those moments that we can find a more mature and sophisticated love. As a family, we've learned to be intentional about showing love to each other, even when it's hard. We remind each other that we love and want the best for each other, and we work together to create an environment of love and support. It's not always easy, but it's worth it.
Sources:
depression
edward welch
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
biblical critical theory
christopher watkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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