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How do I explain to my kids that I'm not going to be there for them?

Answer:

As a pastor and a father, I've come to realize that it's essential to prepare my children for the day when I won't be there for them. I want them to understand that they are part of a larger family, the church, and that they will always have a community to turn to. I want to instill in them a sense of belonging and responsibility, so they know that even when I'm not physically present, they are still loved and cared for.

When explaining this to my kids, I want to be honest and open, but also reassuring. I want them to know that I love them and will always be with them in spirit, even if I'm not physically there. I'll remind them that they are growing up and becoming more independent, and that it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them. I'll share stories of my own experiences and how I've learned to navigate difficult situations, and I'll encourage them to do the same.

As a parent, it's essential to strike a balance between giving my children space and guidance. I want to empower them to make their own decisions and learn from their own experiences, but also be available to offer guidance and support when needed. I'll remind them that they are loved and valued, and that I'm proud of the people they're becoming. By doing so, I hope to raise children who are confident, resilient, and strong in their faith, and who will always know that they have a loving family and community to turn to, even when I'm not there.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
depression
edward welch
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini

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