Biblical Answer

Trusting Ourselves and Trusting God

When we struggle with trusting ourselves, it's often because we've made idols out of our own abilities, wisdom, and strength. We've come to rely on our own understanding and have lost sight of God's sovereignty over our lives. However, as we learn to trust God, we begin to realize that our limitations are not a sign of weakness, but a reminder that we need Him. This doesn't mean we stop trying or striving to do our best, but rather that we do so in a new way, with a less worried and more trusting attitude.

As we trust God, we begin to see that our self-doubt and insecurity are not the result of our own failures, but rather a sign that we've been trying to live life on our own terms, rather than His. We've been trying to earn our worth and value through our own achievements, rather than receiving it as a gift from God. But when we trust in Christ, we're not just trusting Him for salvation, we're trusting Him for the power to live a life that reflects His values and teachings. We're trusting Him to guide us, to provide for us, and to give us the strength we need to overcome our weaknesses.

So, can you ever trust yourself again? The answer is yes, but not in the same way. When we trust ourselves, we're trusting in our own abilities and wisdom. But when we trust God, we're trusting in His sovereignty, His goodness, and His love. We're trusting that He's got our best interests at heart, and that He'll guide us through even the darkest of times. And that's a trust that's worth having. So, don't give up on yourself, but don't put your trust in yourself either. Instead, put your trust in the One who loves you more than you love yourself, and who will never let you down.

The Role of Failure in Trusting God

Failure is an inevitable part of the journey of trusting God. When we try to do things on our own, we'll inevitably fail. But it's in those moments of failure that we're given the opportunity to trust God even more. We can either become bitter and resentful, or we can learn to forgive ourselves and others, and to trust that God is working everything out for our good. As the Bible says, "For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all" (2 Corinthians 4:17). So, don't be afraid to fail, because it's in those moments of failure that we're given the opportunity to trust God even more.

The Paradox of Trusting God

Trusting God is a paradoxical thing. On the one hand, we're called to trust Him with our entire lives, to surrender to His sovereignty, and to rely on His goodness and love. But on the other hand, we're also called to take action, to do our part, and to strive to live a life that reflects His values and teachings. It's a paradox that requires us to trust God in a way that's both passive and active at the same time. We're not just sitting around waiting for God to do everything for us, but rather we're actively seeking Him, seeking to know Him, and seeking to follow Him. And it's in that seeking that we find the trust we need to move forward.

Conclusion

Trusting ourselves and trusting God are two different things. When we trust ourselves, we're trusting in our own abilities and wisdom. But when we trust God, we're trusting in His sovereignty, His goodness, and His love. And it's in that trust that we find the power to overcome our weaknesses, to forgive ourselves and others, and to live a life that reflects His values and teachings. So, don't give up on yourself, but don't put your trust in yourself either. Instead, put your trust in the One who loves you more than you love yourself, and who will never let you down. In the end, it's not about trusting ourselves, but about trusting God. And when we do, we'll find that we can trust ourselves in a way that's new and different, a way that's rooted in our trust in Him. This is the key to overcoming self-doubt and insecurity, and to living a life that's truly fulfilling. So, take a step of faith today, and trust in the God who loves you more than you love yourself. It's a risk worth taking.