Biblical Answer

What does the Bible say about divorce?

The Bible teaches that God's original intent for marriage was permanence and unity. In Matthew 19:4-6, Jesus quotes Genesis 2:24, stating that a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and the two become one flesh. This union is meant to be a lifelong commitment. However, due to the hardness of human hearts, God made provision for divorce in the Old Testament. Jesus added to this provision in Matthew 19:9, stating that divorce is only permissible when a spouse commits adultery.

The Bible also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage. In Matthew 5:31-32, Jesus teaches that divorce is not an option for Christians, except in cases of unchastity. However, in 1 Corinthians 7:15, Paul indicates that a Christian may accept a divorce initiated by an unbelieving spouse. This provision is made out of concern for the well-being of the believer, rather than condoning divorce.

The Bible views divorce as a tragic and difficult option, but one that is sometimes necessary due to the hardness of human hearts. In Matthew 19:8, Jesus acknowledges that God's original intent was not always met, and that divorce was necessary due to human sin. The Bible teaches that marriage is a covenant between two people, and that divorce is a violation of that covenant. Therefore, divorce should not be taken lightly, and should only be considered in cases where there is no other option. Ultimately, the Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment, and that divorce should be avoided whenever possible.