Biblical Answer

Choosing Between Love and Anger in Our Daily Routines

#### The Relationship Between Anger and the Heart

The Bible teaches us that anger is a choice we make, and it reveals more about our own heart than it does about the other person. When we feel angry, it's essential to examine our own heart and understand that anger is between us and God. We must learn to control how others' actions affect us and not let their anger destroy the love we have. This requires knowing our own heart and being aware of our emotions.

#### The Dangers of Unchecked Anger

Unchecked anger can lead to destructive behavior, such as verbal abuse and property damage. It's essential to recognize that anger should not be suppressed, nor should it be vented in a way that causes harm. Instead, we should strive to perfect our emotions and actions. When we choose to act in love, even in the midst of anger, we demonstrate a higher level of maturity and character. This principle is crucial in marriage, where anger can quickly escalate and destroy relationships. By choosing to act in love, we can avoid giving opportunity to the devil and create a safe and loving environment.

#### The Importance of Love in Action

Love is a choice we make every day, and it's easier to recognize as an emotion than anger. When we feel angry, it's often because circumstances have conspired against us, and there's no human face to attach our anger to. In these situations, we must make a conscious choice to act in love, even when we feel angry. This requires self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and a commitment to living a life that reflects Christian values. By choosing to act in love, we demonstrate our faith in God and our trust in His sovereignty over our lives. Ultimately, love is the action we can promise to maintain every day, and it's the key to building strong, healthy relationships.