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Can I still be a good parent even when I'm dying?

Answer:

As a parent, I've come to realize that being a good parent is not about being perfect, but about being present and seeking God's guidance. It's a journey that can bring great joy, but also great pain. I've learned that it's okay to make mistakes and that regret is a natural part of the parenting experience. What's most important is that we acknowledge our limitations and submit ourselves to God, asking for His help and wisdom in raising our children.

As a pastor, I've seen many parents struggle with feelings of inadequacy and guilt. They may feel like they're not doing enough or that they're failing their children. But the truth is, God has given us a unique role as parents, and it's not about being perfect, but about being faithful. We can't guarantee our children's eternal salvation, but we can be the primary instrument in their spiritual growth and instruction. By partnering with God and seeking His guidance, we can become the parents He wants us to be.

In my own experience as a parent, I've learned that it's not about being good enough, but about being loved and loving my children in return. As Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it." This is not a guarantee, but it's a principle that has been true for many families throughout history. By loving and instructing our children in the ways of God, we can give them a strong foundation for life, even when we're not around.

Sources:

power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
the war on children
john macarthur
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer

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