Biblical Answer

When we encounter conflicts with our siblings, it's easy to feel frustrated and wonder why God allows such situations to occur. However, it's essential to remember that God is not the one who causes fights, but rather He is the One who fights our battles (2 Chronicles 20:15). As we pray for our siblings, we must understand that our fight is not with them, but with the devil, who is our true enemy (Ephesians 6:12). When we struggle with our siblings, we must not take it personally, but rather see it as an opportunity to grow in our understanding of God's love and character. As we learn to forgive and love our siblings, we reflect the depth of God's love for each person (Matthew 22:37-40).

In the Bible, Jesus teaches us to resolve conflicts with our siblings in a peaceful and loving manner. If our sibling sins against us, we should go to them and try to resolve the issue between the two of us (Matthew 18:15). If they refuse to listen, we should take it to the church, where the issue can be addressed and resolved in a community setting (Matthew 18:16). However, before we take any action, we should examine our own hearts and make sure we are not harboring any resentment or bitterness towards our sibling (Matthew 5:23-24). We must also be careful not to judge our sibling, but rather to seek to understand their perspective and to love them as we would want to be loved (Matthew 7:1-5).

When we struggle with our siblings, we must remember that God is working in our lives to make us stronger and more like Him (Romans 8:28-29). He may use our troubles to teach us valuable lessons and to help us grow in our faith. As we look back on past struggles, we can see how God has used them to make us better people. Therefore, we should not be surprised if He continues to use our present struggles to make us stronger and more like Him. By trusting in God's sovereignty and goodness, we can learn to see our conflicts with our siblings as opportunities for growth and spiritual development, rather than as sources of frustration and anger. Ultimately, our goal should be to reflect the love and character of God in our relationships with our siblings, and to seek to resolve conflicts in a peaceful and loving manner.