Biblical Answer

If you never get to see your friends again, you may be wondering why you have to go through certain circumstances. However, it is not that you have to go through them, but rather because of your relationship with the Son of God who comes through the providential will of God (Proverbs 27:17). Real friends become wiser together through a healthy clash of viewpoints, and there are two features of real friendship: constancy and transparency. Real friends always let you in, and they never hide their love for you. They risk the friendship by rebuking you when necessary, but they are genuinely seeking your best interests.

When we consider the importance of friendship, we must also consider the role of God in our lives. God is the one who brings people into our lives, and He is the one who sustains our relationships. As we navigate the complexities of friendships, we must remember to prioritize our relationship with God above all else. This means being transparent with Him about our thoughts, feelings, and desires, and seeking His guidance and wisdom in all areas of our lives. By doing so, we can cultivate deeper, more meaningful relationships with others that are built on a foundation of trust, honesty, and love.

Ultimately, even if we never get to see our friends again, we can take comfort in knowing that our relationship with God is eternal and unchanging. As Christians, we believe in the sovereignty of God, who is in control of all things, including the circumstances of our lives. We trust that God's plan is perfect, even when we don't understand it, and that He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). By fixing our eyes on God and His goodness, we can find peace and contentment, even in the midst of uncertainty and change. And who knows, we may even discover new friendships and relationships that bring joy and fulfillment to our lives.