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Your Question:
Can I ever forgive my family for not being there for me?
Answer:
As I reflect on your question, I'm reminded of the struggles my family has faced with forgiveness. It's heartbreaking to think about the lost years of estrangement, and I know that God calls us to love, support, and forgive one another. As a pastor, I've seen firsthand the pain and damage that unforgiveness can cause, not just for individuals but also for families. I understand that forgiveness doesn't erase the hurt or change the past, but it can help us move forward and heal. I've come to realize that forgiveness is a process, and it's not always easy. Sometimes, it requires us to confront the person who hurt us, but not in a way that's motivated by revenge or a desire to hurt them back. Rather, it's about seeking restoration and healing, and being willing to take the first step towards reconciliation. As I've reflected on my own experiences with unforgiveness, I've come to see that it's often a pattern that's been passed down through generations. It's not just about individual choices, but also about the cultural and family dynamics that shape our behavior. As I've sought to forgive my family members, I've learned that it's a journey that requires patience, empathy, and understanding. It's not always easy, but it's a crucial step towards healing and restoring relationships.
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raising kids to follow christ
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addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
true sexual morality
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systematic theology
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meaning of marriage
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