Biblical Answer

The Bible is clear in its teaching on divorce. God says, I hate divorce (Malachi 2:16, NIV, 1984 ed.). This verse emphasizes the importance of God's original intent for marriage, which is permanence. The Bible teaches that God's original intent was for marriage to be a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman. However, there are exceptions to this rule, as seen in Matthew 19:8, where Jesus states that Moses allowed divorce because of the hardness of the people's hearts. In this case, divorce was not God's original intent, but rather a concession to the people's sinful nature. Nevertheless, the Bible still emphasizes the importance of preserving marriage and working through difficulties rather than resorting to divorce. As Leslie said, "God can still restore my marriage, but even if he doesn't, he's still God." This perspective acknowledges the possibility of divorce while also affirming God's sovereignty and love for His people. It also highlights the importance of seeking God's guidance and wisdom in times of difficulty, rather than relying on human solutions or justifications. Ultimately, the Bible teaches that God's will is for marriage to be a lifelong commitment, and that divorce should be seen as a last resort.