Biblical Answer

The Struggle is Real: Can I Still Be a Good Parent When I'm Struggling?

As a parent, you're not alone in your struggles. In fact, the Bible reminds us that "no family is perfect" (1 Corinthians 12:22). The challenges of parenting can be plentiful and obvious, but that doesn't mean you're failing as a parent. It's easy to feel like a failure when things don't go as planned, but the truth is, God is sovereign over all creation, including your family (Psalm 103:19). He's the one who sustains and governs every aspect of our lives, including our relationships with our children.

So, how can you still be a good parent when you're struggling? First, recognize that you're not alone in your struggles. Many parents face similar challenges, and it's okay to ask for help. In fact, the Bible encourages us to seek wisdom from others, including our spiritual leaders (Proverbs 11:14). Second, focus on what you can control, rather than getting bogged down by what you can't control. As the Bible says, "Don't give up! You are going to earn every grey hair on your head, but hang in there—it's worth it" (Proverbs 27:11). Finally, remember that your worth as a parent is not defined by your children's behavior or accomplishments. Your worth is rooted in your relationship with God, and in His love for you (1 John 3:1).

As you navigate the challenges of parenting, remember to put your relationship with God first. Trust in His sovereignty and His ability to work all things together for good (Romans 8:28). And when you're feeling overwhelmed, look beyond your present struggles and remember that God has used past troubles to make you a better person (Romans 5:3-4). By putting your trust in God and seeking His guidance, you can still be a good parent, even in the midst of struggles. So, don't give up! Keep trusting, keep seeking, and keep loving your children, even when it's hard. Because in the end, that's what being a good parent is all about.