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Your Question:
What's the best way to deal with the guilt and shame?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with guilt and shame. When it comes to dealing with the guilt and shame, I believe the first step is to acknowledge it and take responsibility for our actions. This means considering the accusations and listening to the truth, even if it's difficult to hear. If we see truth in it, we should confess it, knowing that Christ has taken the judgment of our sin upon himself. It's essential to remember that guilt is a good sign that God is working in our lives, giving us the grace to see sin and change. Rather than trying to hide from it or become mired in shame, we should face it head-on and take concrete actions to counteract our failures. This includes opportunities to confess freely and safely, gracious accountability, and specific preventative measures. By doing so, we demonstrate repentance, not just simple regret. As I reflect on my own life, I realize that I've made mistakes and hurt people I care about. When I feel like it's my fault, I try to listen to the counsel of others and consider their perspective. I also remind myself that I'm a debtor who cannot pay my debts, and that the only thing that will take care of real guilt is real forgiveness. By seeking forgiveness and working to prevent similar failures in the future, I can move forward with greater virtue and more consistent obedience.
Sources:
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
depression
edward welch
acts
r c sproul
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