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Your Question:
What's the value of forgiveness in everyday life when we've been hurt?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen firsthand the power of forgiveness in everyday life. In my own marriage, my wife Susan and I have had to practice forgiveness countless times over the 19 years we've been together. We've learned that forgiveness is not just about letting go of the hurt, but about choosing to release the other person from our judgment. It's a process that requires us to continually renew our commitment to forgive, even when feelings of resentment or bitterness arise. I've come to realize that forgiveness is an act of self-defense, a tourniquet that stops the fatal bleeding of resentment. When we choose to forgive, we're not forgetting what happened, but rather choosing not to hold it against the other person. This is especially true in marriage, where the relationship is constantly being tested and tried. By practicing forgiveness, we're able to build a stronger, more resilient relationship with each other. As a Christian, I believe that forgiveness is a fundamental aspect of our faith. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross was the ultimate act of forgiveness, and it's something that we're called to emulate in our own lives. By choosing to forgive others, we're not only releasing them from our judgment, but also ourselves from the burden of resentment and anger. It's a costly sacrifice, to be sure, but one that's essential for building strong relationships and living a life that reflects the character of Jesus Christ.
Sources:
sacred marriage
gary thomas
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
systematic theology
wayne grudem
practicing the way
john mark comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
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