Biblical Answer

The Gift of Sex

Sex is a gift from God, and we should accept it with gratitude. But rules for enjoying God's gift of sex are set by the giver. They are set by what pleases God, not by what pleases us. Without knowing God well, some people fear sex or use it in a way that displeases God. This is not a healthy approach to sex, and it can lead to harm and suffering.

The Purpose of Sex

God designed sex to fulfill something basic in human nature. It satisfies a deep need for connection and intimacy with another person. But sex is not just about physical pleasure or emotional connection; it is also about producing something valuable. In the Bible, sex is described as a means of uniting two people in a profound way, and it enables them to produce something valuable (Genesis 1:28). This is why sex is considered a gift from God, and we should use it in a way that honors Him.

The Rules for Sex

When it comes to sexual behavior, we need to get specific about what pleases God. The Bible reveals that there is structure in God's design for sex, and we should carefully examine scripture to understand how to use this gift in a way that honors God. Sex should never be used as a way to worship God or as a path to God. Instead, it should be a expression of love and commitment between two people, and it should be used in a way that reflects God's values and character. By understanding God's design for sex, we can use this gift in a way that brings joy and fulfillment, rather than harm and suffering.