Biblical Answer

When we prioritize others over ourselves, we demonstrate a heart that is surrendered to God and a willingness to put others before our own interests. This is a fundamental principle of Christianity, as seen in Philippians 2:3-4, which states, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others." By putting others first, we reflect the character of Jesus, who came not to be served but to serve (Matthew 20:28).

Prioritizing others over ourselves also has a profound impact on our relationships and our communities. When we prioritize others, we build trust, foster empathy, and create a sense of belonging. This is because we are willing to listen, to serve, and to put the needs of others before our own. As Proverbs 18:9-24 notes, life in society is deeply interconnected, and our individual actions have a ripple effect on those around us. By prioritizing others, we contribute to a culture of compassion, kindness, and mutual support.

In contrast, when we prioritize ourselves over others, we can become isolated, self-centered, and even hurtful to those around us. This is because we are more concerned with our own interests and desires than with the well-being of others. As Proverbs 18:12 notes, "Before his downfall a man's heart is proud, but humility comes before honor." By prioritizing others, we demonstrate humility and a willingness to put the needs of others before our own, which ultimately leads to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.