Biblical Answer

The Dilemma of Choosing between Treatment and Inheritance

As a parent, you are faced with a difficult decision: choosing between expensive medical treatment for yourself and leaving a large inheritance to your children. This decision can be emotionally challenging, as you must weigh the potential benefits of each option. On one hand, investing in expensive treatment may provide you with a longer life and more time to enjoy with your family. On the other hand, leaving a large inheritance to your children may provide them with financial security and freedom to pursue their dreams.

The Biblical Perspective

From a biblical perspective, the decision to prioritize expensive treatment or inheritance is not solely about making a choice between two options. Rather, it is about understanding the nature of our relationship with God and our children. As Psalm 127:3-5 reminds us, "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate." This passage highlights the value of children as a blessing from God, and the importance of trusting in His sovereignty.

Trusting in God's Sovereignty

Ultimately, the decision to choose between expensive treatment and inheritance is not about us, but about trusting in God's sovereignty. As Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths." By trusting in God's plan and sovereignty, we can release our children from the burden of caring for us, and instead focus on building a strong relationship with them. This means being present, showing love and care, and teaching them valuable life skills. By doing so, we can give our children the greatest gift of all – a strong foundation in Christ and a sense of security that comes from knowing their parents love and trust God. As we navigate this difficult decision, let us remember that our children's well-being is not solely dependent on our financial provision, but on our relationship with God and our commitment to raising them to know and love Him.