Biblical Answer

The Perception of Abandonment

When we feel abandoned by God, it's essential to examine our thoughts and actions to understand the root cause of this perception. The Bible warns us that Satan, the enemy of God, is a thief who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). He seeks to deceive us into believing that God has abandoned us, making us feel hopeless and helpless. This feeling can stem from various factors, including our own unbelief, self-centeredness, and a lack of trust in God's sovereignty. When we focus on our circumstances and doubts, we may begin to feel like God is not present or caring.

The Importance of Surrender

Surrender is a crucial step in breaking free from feelings of abandonment. When we surrender to God, we abandon our own desires, will, and understanding, and submit to His plan and purpose. This surrender is not a one-time event but a continuous process of yielding to God's guidance and wisdom. By surrendering our fears, doubts, and uncertainties, we open ourselves to God's presence and power. The Bible encourages us to trust in God's goodness and sovereignty, even when we don't understand His ways (Romans 11:33). When we trust in God's character, we can begin to see that He is always working, even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

Breaking Free from Roadblocks

To break free from feelings of abandonment, we must identify and confront the roadblocks that prevent us from experiencing God's presence. These roadblocks can include habits, fears, and unbelief that cloud our access to God. We must also recognize that our feelings can lie, and that God's character and actions are not defined by our emotions. The Bible reminds us that God is a loving Father who seeks a personal relationship with each of us (1 John 4:8). By surrendering to God and seeking to understand His nature and character, we can begin to see that He is always present and working, even when we don't feel it. As we trust in God's goodness and sovereignty, we can break free from feelings of abandonment and experience the joy and peace that comes from knowing Him.