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Your Question:
how do i balance my desire to help others with my own needs?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with balancing their desire to help others with their own needs. It's a delicate balance, indeed. Scripture reminds us that we have been given gifts to serve others, but we also have needs that must be met by others. The key is to recognize that we are not alone in this journey. We must seek advice and listen to the counsel of others, just as a wise person would (Prov. 20:18). By doing so, we can learn to love others and serve them in a way that reflects the love of Jesus Christ. It's also essential to understand that our motivation to serve others should come from a desire to love others and Jesus, rather than just a sense of duty or obligation. When we focus on loving others, we begin to see that our own needs are not in conflict with serving others, but rather, they are intertwined. As we serve others, we are also being served by others, and vice versa. This is a beautiful gift, one that requires us to be self-controlled and self-motivated towards right action. As I reflect on my own life, I'm reminded that I'm not alone in this struggle. I have a wonderful wife, Susan, who supports me in my ministry and helps me to prioritize my own needs. My children, Joshua and Rebecca, are also learning the value of serving others and loving their neighbors as themselves. And as I look to God for guidance, I'm reminded that He is the ultimate source of love and motivation. When I'm feeling tired or old, I call out for help, and He reminds me that there is joy set before me (Heb. 12:2).
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