Biblical Answer

Why Do We Need to Forgive Others?

The Poison of Unforgiveness

Unforgiveness can poison our soul, eating us alive. When we forgive someone who has wronged us, we might feel they are getting something they don't deserve. However, this is a misconception. Forgiveness is not about giving someone what they deserve, but about becoming more Christ-like in the process. Just as we do when we pray, especially when we pray for our enemies, forgiving someone else makes us more like Christ.

The Connection between Forgiving and Being Forgiven

The connection between our forgiving and being forgiven is graphically expounded. The point is not so much that forgiving is a prior condition of being forgiven, but that forgiveness cannot be a one-time event. It is a process that requires us to continually relinquish our bitterness and resentment. We must encourage our children to forgive others unconditionally, just as we have been forgiven by God through Christ. Forgiveness is not just about others; it's also about our relationship with God. When we forgive others, we become more like Christ, and this helps us to stay free from the bondage of unforgiveness.

The Responsibility of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not just a feeling; it's a decision. We must choose to forgive others, even when it's difficult. Our feelings may not automatically follow our decision to forgive, and forgiving someone doesn't erase our memories. However, forgiveness is essential for our spiritual growth and well-being. When we forgive others, we demonstrate God's mercy and love. We must forgive others as we have been forgiven by God, and this is a responsibility that we must pass on to our children. By forgiving others, we become more like Christ, and this helps us to stay free from the bondage of unforgiveness.