Biblical Answer

In the biblical tradition, adultery is considered the most serious violation of marriage. The Scriptures condemn infidelity, and it has had few advocates in Western society until recently. The prohibition against adultery is a protective measure that promotes the well-being of all in the family. It preserves the integrity of the couple and ensures that sex remains living and productive instead of used up and thrown away like a sort of empty container. Divorce destroys exclusivity by moving from one relationship to another, making the marriage vow an oath that is broken over time.

The Bible does not provide a clear and comprehensive list of grounds for divorce. However, Jesus forbids divorce except on the ground of unchastity (Matthew 5:31-32). This suggests that adultery is the primary ground for divorce. Some interpreters argue that other grounds, such as desertion, could be included as well. However, others resist allowing more than physical adultery as grounds justifying divorce, citing the biblical prohibition against adultery and the importance of preserving the integrity of marriage.

In the New Testament, Paul conveys the main point of the Jesus tradition: divorce and remarriage are sinful. If a spouse is sexually unfaithful, divorce is permissible, but remarriage is not. This suggests that while adultery is a serious violation of marriage, it is not the only ground for divorce. However, the Bible does not provide clear guidance on other grounds for divorce, and the issue remains a subject of debate among evangelicals. Ultimately, the decision to divorce should be approached with caution and a commitment to following God's will.