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Your Question:
Can I really forgive my adult child for betraying me?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a choice we must make, especially when it comes to our children. As a parent, I've learned that forgiveness is not about trusting our children implicitly, but about trusting them to grow and learn from their mistakes. When my son Joshua or daughter Rebecca have hurt me, I've had to take a step back and reflect on my actions. I ask myself, "What did I do wrong? How did my words or actions hurt them?" By acknowledging my mistakes and taking responsibility, I create a safe space for them to forgive me. Forgiveness is not a one-way street; it requires both parties to work towards healing. When I've blown it with my kids, I've asked for their forgiveness, identifying the specific hurt I caused and how I can do better in the future. This process doesn't just restore our relationship but also models Jesus' teachings on forgiveness and humility. As I grow and change, I hope to see my children do the same, learning to forgive others and themselves. As a parent and a pastor, I've seen firsthand the power of forgiveness in relationships. When we choose to forgive, we create a space for healing and growth. I pray with my children that they would live in ongoing forgiveness, understanding the depth of God's forgiveness towards them. By teaching them to forgive and modeling it myself, I hope to help them develop a heart that is quick to confess mistakes and repent. This is the key to experiencing the power of grace in our relationships.
Sources:
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
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