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Your Question:
How do I explain my job loss to my kids?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father, I've learned that it's essential to be honest and open with your kids when explaining difficult situations like job loss. When Joshua and Rebecca were younger, I would have told them that I lost my job because I wasn't doing my best work or because I made some mistakes. But now that they're older, I would say something like, "Hey guys, I've been struggling to find a job that's a good fit for me, and it looks like I won't be able to continue working here. I'm not sure what the future holds, but I'm committed to finding a new opportunity that will allow me to provide for our family." It's also essential to reassure them that this doesn't define our family's worth or their worth as individuals. I would remind them that we're a family of faith, and that God is always with us, even in difficult times. I would say something like, "Just because I lost my job doesn't mean that we're not a good family or that we're not loved. We're still the same family, and we'll get through this together." By framing it in a way that emphasizes our faith and our commitment to each other, I hope to help them see that this is just a temporary setback. As their father, it's my job to be a source of comfort and guidance, even in difficult times. I would encourage Joshua and Rebecca to talk to me about their feelings and concerns, and I would listen attentively to what they have to say. I would also remind them that it's okay to make mistakes and that we can learn from them. By being open, honest, and supportive, I hope to help them navigate this challenging time and come out stronger on the other side.
Sources:
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
acts
r c sproul
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
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