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How do I forgive my child?

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Forgiving a child is a delicate matter, but it's essential for healing and strengthening our relationship with them. When I've blown it with Joshua or Rebecca, I've learned to ask for their forgiveness. I take responsibility for my actions, acknowledge how my words or behavior hurt them, and assure them that I'll do better in the future. For instance, if I've been harsh in my tone when I was angry, I'll apologize for it and explain how it affected them.

It's crucial to be specific about what I did wrong, so they understand that I'm not just making a generic apology. I'll say something like, "I'm sorry for calling you stupid" instead of just saying "I'm sorry if I hurt you." By being upfront and honest, I'm teaching them the value of humility and accountability. This helps them see that I'm committed to growing and changing, just like I'm teaching them to do.

When I ask for forgiveness, I remind them that they are loved and valued, no matter what. I tell them that there's always another chance to try again, and that I believe in their ability to do better next time. This helps them understand that forgiveness is a part of love and discipline, and that it's a chance for us to start over and move forward together. By modeling forgiveness and repentance, I hope to encourage Joshua and Rebecca to do the same, and to live a life of ongoing forgiveness and mercy.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian

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