Biblical Answer

Understanding Christian Sexuality

As a Christian, we can view sexuality positively by recognizing that sex is a beautiful gift from God, created to bring joy and intimacy to our marriages. Basing sexual morality on the holiness of God links the value of sexual purity with the value of God himself, making sex wonderful because God is wonderful. This perspective emphasizes the importance of giving in our sexual relationships, using our power over another responsibly, appropriately, and benevolently, and growing in Christ as we do so.

Spiritual Transformation through Sex

When we approach sexuality with a spiritual mindset, we can experience transformation through this physical act. Giving in our sexual relationships with our spouse can lead to spiritual growth, as we learn to use our power over another responsibly and appropriately. This can help us to understand the gospel and the ways we read scripture in a new light. By recognizing the spiritual meaning of our sexuality, we can see that sex is not just a physical act, but a way to connect with God and our partner in a deep and meaningful way.

Embracing God's Design for Sexuality

As Christians, we can view sexuality positively by embracing God's design for our bodies and our relationships. We can learn to see sex as a way to express our love and commitment to our spouse, and to experience joy and intimacy in our marriages. By focusing on the spiritual aspects of sexuality, we can overcome the negative views that have been perpetuated by the church for centuries, and instead see sex as a beautiful gift from God. This perspective can help us to live out our faith in a more authentic and fulfilling way, and to experience the joy and intimacy that God intended for us to have in our marriages.