Biblical Answer

Prioritizing Love in a Chaotic World

When the world around us is falling apart and we're feeling anxious, prioritizing love can be a challenging task. However, as the Bible teaches, "love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4). In the midst of chaos, love becomes even more essential. It's not about feeling love, but about choosing to act with love. As C.S. Lewis said, "If you stress the action of love over the feeling, you enhance and establish the feeling." This means that we must make a conscious decision to prioritize love, even when our emotions are telling us otherwise.

In a marriage, prioritizing love means more than just feeling affectionate towards one another. It means making time for each other, nurturing and renewing the relationship, and choosing to act with love even when it's difficult. As the Bible says, "Love never fails" (1 Corinthians 13:8). This means that even when we're feeling anxious or frustrated, love can overcome those emotions. It's not about avoiding conflict or difficulties, but about choosing to respond with love and kindness. By prioritizing love in our relationships, we can build strong bonds of friendship, commitment, and understanding.

In a world that often emphasizes individualism and self-preservation, prioritizing love can be countercultural. However, as the Bible teaches, "love is not self-seeking" (1 Corinthians 13:5). When we prioritize love, we're not just benefiting ourselves, but also others. We're showing them that we care, that we're committed to them, and that we're willing to put their needs before our own. This is especially important in times of chaos and anxiety, when people need love and support more than ever. By prioritizing love, we can be a source of hope and comfort in a world that often seems to be falling apart.