Biblical Answer

The Struggle for Self-Control

The struggle for self-control is a universal human experience. We all face temptations and cravings that can derail our best intentions. The Bible teaches that self-control is a strategic countermeasure to the insatiable cravings of sin (2 Peter 1:6). It is a great blessing when we can exercise self-control over our bodily desires, but it requires faith and discipline to maintain. We must learn to recognize the triggers that lead us to relapse and develop strategies to overcome them.

Discovering the Truth About Yourself

To regain your sense of self, you must first discover the truth about yourself. This involves acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses, and being honest about your sinful tendencies and besetting sins. The Bible encourages us to examine ourselves and seek God's guidance (Psalm 139:23-24). When we get honest with God and ourselves, the Spirit of God can begin to work in our hearts, showing us what we are like and helping us to become the person God created us to be. This process of self-discovery is not a one-time event, but rather a lifelong journey of growth and transformation.

Breaking Free from the Old Self

The old self is a prisoner of sin, bound by habits and besetting sins that can be difficult to break. But when we surrender to God and ask for His help, we can begin to break free from the old self and become the new person God created us to be (2 Corinthians 5:17). This new self is still us, but liberated from our sinful tendencies and flaws. It is a work in progress, and sometimes we may struggle with relapses, but with God's help, we can overcome and grow in our faith. As we fix our eyes on Jesus and seek His guidance, we can develop the self-control we need to live a life that reflects our true identity in Christ. I pray that you will take the first step towards discovering the truth about yourself and breaking free from the old self, and that you will find the freedom and joy that comes from living a life surrendered to God. Ask the Lord to put awareness of Himself in you, and your self-awareness will disappear. Then He will be your all in all. Beware of allowing your self-awareness to remain, and you will find your sense of self regained.