Biblical Answer

Practicing Kindness in the Midst of Isolation

When we're feeling isolated, exhausted, or overwhelmed, it can be challenging to show kindness to those around us. However, the Bible teaches us that kindness is not just a feeling, but an action that can be chosen, even in the midst of difficulties. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Paul writes, "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." This verse reminds us that we have been comforted by God, and we are called to comfort others in their afflictions.

Putting on Kindness

When we're not feeling particularly friendly, but know we ought to be, the best thing we can do is to "put on timidity and take the first step" (Proverbs 18:24). This means being intentional about showing kindness, even when it feels forced. As we take the first step, God will give us nourishment to continue. We can also look for ways to share the load with others, just as we would in a partnership (Galatians 6:2). This might involve asking for help or offering to help someone else. By working together, we can find ways to show kindness even when we're feeling exhausted.

Practicing Kindness in Daily Life

In everyday life, showing kindness can be as simple as giving someone a hug (Proverbs 18:24). Research has shown that people need at least twelve hugs per day to grow and thrive. We can also practice kindness by being patient with others, even when they're struggling. As we navigate our own difficulties, we can remember that God is our source of power and that we have no right to complain. Instead, we can be exhausted for God's purposes, and trust that He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). By choosing to show kindness, even when we're feeling isolated, exhausted, or overwhelmed, we can be a source of comfort and encouragement to those around us.