Biblical Answer

Understanding the Complexity of Right and Wrong

The question of how to know what's right when everything feels wrong is a complex one. It's not just about making a decision based on our emotions or expectations. Rather, it's about discerning what is truly right and wrong in a world where the connection between rightness and well-being is not always obvious. As the quote suggests, "once they found the right person, everything was all right" is a myth that does not reflect real life. We often cling to this hope that finding the right person or situation will make everything okay, but this is not always the case.

Finding Guidance in God's Sovereignty

In the midst of uncertainty, it's essential to remember that God is sovereign and that His way is always right, even when everything else seems to be going wrong. We must trust in His goodness and wisdom, even when we don't understand what's happening. This trust allows us to make decisions in the light of a perfect and delightful friendship with God, knowing that He will lovingly produce a sense of restraint or conviction when our decisions are wrong. This conviction is not based on our emotions or expectations but on a sense of peace or rest that comes from being in harmony with God's will.

Seeking Wisdom and Guidance

When faced with the question of what's right, it's essential to seek wisdom and guidance from God and others. We should not try to navigate complex moral issues on our own, but rather seek out trusted advisors, mentors, or spiritual leaders who can offer wise counsel. Additionally, we should not be isolated and try to deal with the chaos of life by ourselves. By seeking guidance and support, we can gain a deeper understanding of what is right and wrong and make decisions that align with God's will. Ultimately, knowing what's right when everything feels wrong requires a deep trust in God's sovereignty and a willingness to seek wisdom and guidance from others.