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Your Question:
Can I still have a good marriage if I'm in pain?
Answer:
As a pastor and someone who's been married for 19 years, I've seen my fair share of struggles in marriage. But I firmly believe that a good marriage can still be achieved even if you're in pain. In fact, I think pain is a natural part of the process, and it's how we respond to it that matters. When we're hurt, it's easy to become self-centered and focus on our own wounds, but that's exactly when we need to turn to God and ask for His help. The key is to recognize that our pain is not a reason to give up on our marriage, but rather an opportunity to grow and heal together. As the Bible says, "God can resurrect the deadest of marriages." But it takes humility and a willingness to live God's way, even when it's difficult. We need to pray for an end to conflict and a breaking of the hold that strife has on us. It's not about changing our spouse, but about surrendering ourselves to God and asking Him to work in our hearts. In my own marriage, my wife Susan and I have had our share of struggles, but we've always tried to prioritize our relationship and seek God's help in times of pain. And I've seen firsthand the power of prayer and surrender in healing and restoring our marriage. So, to anyone who's struggling in their marriage, I would say don't give up. Keep praying, keep seeking God, and keep working on yourself. With God's help, a good marriage is still possible, even in the midst of pain.
Sources:
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
sacred marriage
gary thomas
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