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Your Question:
How can I still trust my family member after what they did?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father, I've had to navigate complex family dynamics and learn to trust my children in a way that's healthy and realistic. When my teenage son or daughter asks me if I trust them, I've come to realize that trust is earned, not entitled. It's not about being overly cautious or distrustful, but about recognizing that teenagers are still learning and growing, and their judgment may not always be sound. I've found that being honest with my children about my concerns and limitations can actually help build trust in the long run. By saying something like, "I trust you, but I'm hesitant to trust your judgment in certain circumstances," I'm showing them that I value their character and integrity, while also acknowledging that I need to be involved in certain decisions. This approach has helped me avoid the trap of either being overly permissive or overly controlling. As I reflect on my own family's history, I've seen patterns of behavior that have contributed to strained relationships. But I've also learned that prayer can be a powerful tool in healing and rebuilding those relationships. By covering my family in prayer and seeking God's guidance, I've been able to approach difficult conversations with more empathy and understanding. This has helped me to forgive and move forward, even when it's hard.
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phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
jesus on trial
david limbaugh
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
building dynamic faith
jerry falwell
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