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What's the best way to explain this to my friends?

Answer:

You know, I've been thinking a lot about friendship lately, especially in the context of our family and our church. When it comes to explaining what makes a good friend, I think it's all about authenticity and reliability. As a pastor, I've seen firsthand how a friend can bring out the best in people, but also how a fake friend can be a real poison.

I remember when Joshua and Rebecca were younger, we'd often invite their friends over for dinner and it was amazing to see how they'd open up and be themselves around our family. But, as the Bible says, not everyone passes the test. Some friends are only around when things are going well, but disappear when things get tough. That's not a true friend. A true friend is someone who sticks closer than a brother, someone who's always there for you, no matter what.

So, when explaining this to my friends, I'd say that a good friend is someone who is transparent, honest, and reliable. They're not just there for the good times, but also for the tough times. They encourage and support you, even when it's hard. And, as the Bible says, a good friend is someone who will influence you for good, not for bad. That's what I want for our family and our church, and that's what I strive to be as a friend and as a pastor.

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