**The Dangers of Prioritizing Short-Term Gains**
When we prioritize short-term gains over long-term relationships, we risk losing the very thing that brings us true fulfillment and happiness. In the context of marriage, this can manifest in a pursuit of instant gratification, where we seek to satisfy our desires without considering the long-term consequences of our actions. This can lead to a sense of emptiness and disconnection, as we become more focused on our own individual needs rather than working together as a team to build a strong and lasting relationship.
In contrast, when we prioritize our relationship, we are more likely to experience a sense of unity and purpose. We are able to navigate life's challenges together, supporting each other through the ups and downs, and building a strong foundation for our future together. This is not to say that we will never face difficulties or disagreements, but rather that we will be able to work through them together, using our communication and love for each other as a guiding force. As the Bible teaches, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).
In order to prioritize our relationship, we must be willing to put in the effort to build a strong foundation, even if it means delaying immediate gratification. This may involve setting aside our own desires and needs in order to support our partner, or working through difficult conversations and conflicts in a healthy and constructive way. By doing so, we can create a sense of security and trust that will allow us to weather any storm, and build a lasting and fulfilling relationship that brings joy and happiness to both partners. As the Bible teaches, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth" (1 Corinthians 13:4-6). By prioritizing our relationship and living out these values, we can create a strong and lasting bond that will bring us joy and fulfillment for years to come.