Biblical Answer

How Do I Start Over?

To start over, you must first address the roadblocks in your life. These roadblocks are often a result of past decisions, habits, and commitments that have led you astray. The first step is to forgive yourself and others, and to ask for forgiveness. A good local church will support you in this pursuit. You must also break free from negative habits and commit to living a life that reflects Christian values and teachings.

The next step is to set some standards for yourself and to focus on becoming the person God created you to be. This involves overcoming temptations and committing to a life of faith. You must also be willing to take a step of faith and to trust God to lead you a step at a time. Remember, "No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13).

To start over, you must also commit to keeping your commitments later. This means being proactive about a new strategy to handle failure and asking God to help you react by faith to any future failures. You must surround yourself with wise counselors, be part of a church, and turn to Christ and commit yourself to keep turning to Christ. Engage the battle, separate from the things that hinder you, and lay down your arms. Laying down your arms, surrendering, and saying you are sorry is the only way out of your hole. This process of laying down your arms, surrendering, and getting ready to start life over again from the ground floor is the only way to overcome your roadblocks and start anew.