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The Paradox of Helping Others in Times of Crisis

Helping others in times of crisis can be a paradoxical experience. On one hand, we are called to serve others, to give what we have, and to put others before ourselves (Matthew 20:28, Philippians 2:3-4). On the other hand, we have a tendency to feel more strongly the needs and hurts of our close friends and relatives than of strangers. We may even feel overwhelmed by the needs of those around us, and struggle to know where to begin or how to make a meaningful impact. This is where the importance of community and support comes in. When we are in a crisis, we need the support and help of others, not just to alleviate our physical needs, but also to alleviate our emotional and spiritual needs.

Seeking Help for Ourselves

As we seek to help others, it is essential that we also seek help for ourselves. We cannot pour from an empty cup, and we need to prioritize our own spiritual and emotional well-being in order to be effective in serving others. This is not about being selfish, but about being wise and intentional in our approach to helping others. By seeking advice and guidance from others, we can gain a new perspective, receive encouragement and support, and develop a more effective strategy for serving others. This is especially important when we are facing a crisis, as we may feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to proceed.

Finding a Balance

Finding a balance between our own needs and the needs of others can be a delicate task. However, by prioritizing community and support, seeking help for ourselves, and being intentional in our approach to helping others, we can find a balance that is sustainable and effective. This may involve starting small, setting realistic goals, and working together with others to achieve them. It may also involve being willing to ask for help, to admit our limitations, and to trust in the support and guidance of others. By doing so, we can find a sense of peace and purpose, even in the midst of crisis, and can serve others in a way that is authentic, effective, and life-changing.