Biblical Answer

Understanding the Importance of Marriage

The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred institution created by God, and it is essential to prioritize it in our lives (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:4-6). Preserving a marriage is crucial, and it should not be taken lightly. The Bible warns against divorce and remarriage, emphasizing the importance of working through challenges and difficulties in a marriage (Matthew 5:31-32; 1 Corinthians 7:10-11). If we are struggling in our marriage, it's essential to seek help and support, rather than giving up or throwing away the relationship.

Seeking God's Intervention

When facing challenges in our marriage, we should turn to God in prayer, asking Him to intervene and bring healing and restoration. The Bible encourages us to pray for our spouses, asking God to bless their sexuality and make it an area of fulfillment for them (1 Thessalonians 5:18). We should also pray for our own hearts, asking God to remove barriers and lift us out of the pit of despair. By seeking God's help, we can break down the walls that separate us and experience a renewed sense of love and connection in our marriage.

Investing in Our Marriage

Preserving a marriage requires a significant investment of time, effort, and commitment. We must be willing to work through our issues and challenges, rather than giving up or ignoring them. The Bible teaches that a healthy marriage is built on mutual respect, trust, and communication (Ephesians 5:25-33; Colossians 3:19). By prioritizing our marriage and seeking God's help, we can create a source of joy and life in our relationship, rather than a drudgery or a source of stress and anxiety. Ultimately, God desires for our marriage to be a reflection of His love and redemption in the world. As we seek to preserve our marriage, we should pray for God's guidance and intervention, trusting that He can bring healing and restoration to our relationship. (2 Corinthians 5:17-20)