What happens when love turns to dust in our daily lives?

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As I reflect on my 19 years of marriage to Susan, I've come to realize that when love turns to dust in our daily lives, it's often due to our own choices. We may initially think that our love for each other is perfect, but as time passes, the imperfections and flaws in our partner become more apparent. This is especially true when we're no longer in the "in-love" phase, as described by Gary Chapman, which can last several months to two years. Once this phase ends, we're left with the reality of our partner's imperfections.

It's easy to get caught up in the idea that our partner is perfect, but the truth is that no one is perfect. As Kathleen and Thomas Hart so aptly put it, marriage is a long walk two people take together, with its ups and downs, dull moments, and arduous times. It's in these moments that we have a choice to make: we can either seek to understand the message behind our disillusionment or give up on our spouse and seek someone new. Susan and I have been through our share of ups and downs, but we've chosen to work through our issues and deepen our love for each other.

For us, love has evolved from a surface-level attraction to a deeper, richer passion that has been fostered by our commitment to each other and our faith. As I read the Scriptures and reflect on the love of Christ, I'm reminded that love is not just an emotion or an ethic, but the highest mode of knowing. This understanding has helped us navigate the challenges of marriage and has given us a deeper appreciation for each other. When love turns to dust, it's not the end of our love, but rather an opportunity to deepen our understanding of each other and our commitment to our relationship.

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