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Your Question:
What's the best way to tell my kids I'm dying?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father, I've had to think about how to approach difficult conversations with my children. When it comes to telling them that I'm dying, I think it's essential to be honest and open with them, while also being sensitive to their age and maturity level. I would start by asking them to explain why they're asking, as you never know what's behind the question. Are they worried about me, or are they concerned about something else? By listening to their concerns and responding thoughtfully, I can build trust and create a safe space for us to have this conversation. As a parent, I want to be honest with my children, but I also want to be gentle and compassionate. I would explain to them that I'm not going to be around forever, and that it's okay to feel sad or scared. I would reassure them that I love them and that they will always be in my heart and in God's heart. I would also remind them of the promises of God and the hope of eternal life that we have through Jesus Christ. By being honest and open, I can help my children process their emotions and find comfort in their faith. Ultimately, the goal is to help my children understand that death is a part of life, but it's not the end. I would encourage them to ask questions and seek answers, and to lean on their faith for comfort and strength. As a family, we can work through this difficult time together, and I can be there to support and guide them as they navigate their emotions and come to terms with the reality of my mortality.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
depression
edward welch
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