Biblical Answer

The Challenge of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of the Christian life, yet it can be a daunting task, especially when we've been hurt by others. The Bible teaches us that forgiveness is not only a choice we make, but also a vital part of our relationship with God. In fact, Jesus teaches us to pray for those who have wronged us, saying, "Forgive as we have been forgiven" (Matthew 6:12). This means that we must recognize that we too are in need of forgiveness, and that God's forgiveness is available to us.

Choosing Forgiveness

So, how do we choose to forgive those who have hurt us? The Bible tells us to pray for them, even if it seems hard at first. Praying for those who have wronged us helps us to see them as God sees them - as people who are in need of forgiveness and restoration. It also helps us to release the hurt and anger we feel, and to focus on the healing and restoration that comes from forgiveness. As we pray for those who have hurt us, we can also choose to confront them in a way that is not superior or disdainful, but rather, in a way that is honest and loving. This can be a difficult and vulnerable process, but it is often the first step towards healing and restoration.

The Power of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not just a choice we make, but it is also a powerful force that can bring healing and restoration to our lives. When we choose to forgive, we open ourselves up to the power of God's forgiveness, which covers both guilt and shame. This means that we can experience the joy and freedom that comes from being forgiven, and we can also learn to forgive ourselves and others. As we cultivate a heart of forgiveness, we become more like Christ, who delights in forgiving and restoring those who have been hurt. So, let us choose to forgive those who have hurt us, not because they deserve it, but because we have been forgiven by God and want to reflect His love and mercy in our lives. As we do, we will find that forgiveness brings life and healing, rather than death and destruction.