Biblical Answer

The point of fighting is not to avoid conflict, but to engage it in a way that leads to spiritual growth and victory. When we face opposition, we have a choice: we can either engage the enemy in the external world, or we can fight the battle before God, settling the matter once and for all. The Bible teaches us that we must be ready to fight for our minds, as the battle for our minds is the first and most crucial battle (1 Peter 5:8). If we are not ready to fight, we will lose the battle and be defeated.

The idea that we should avoid fighting altogether is a misconception. Christians have always engaged in spiritual combat, and it is necessary to do so in order to stand against evil powers that seek to destroy our ordered way of life. In fact, the Bible says that we should "quarrel" with each other, not in the sense of being aggressive or confrontational, but in the sense of trying to show the other person is in the wrong. This kind of quarreling is a natural part of human relationships, and it is a sign of a restored relationship with God.

The absence of fighting is not a sign of peace, but rather a sign of a restored relationship with God. When we have peace with God, we are able to love and forgive others, even when they are wrong. This kind of love-motivated anger is deeply entrenched in the heart of God, and it inspires us to defend our loved ones and to stand for justice. In this sense, fighting is not just about winning or losing, but about standing for what is right and just, and loving others in the process. By engaging in spiritual combat and fighting for what is right, we can experience spiritual growth, victory, and a deeper relationship with God.