Biblical Answer

Here is how you can explain your situation to your friends:

1. Be honest and transparent

Being honest and transparent with your friends is key to building trust and deepening your relationships. When you're struggling with something, don't be afraid to open up to your friends and share your concerns. This will help them understand where you're coming from and be more supportive. As the Bible says, "Real friends always let you in, and they never shut you out" (Proverbs 27:9). So, be vulnerable and honest with your friends, and they will likely respond with empathy and understanding.

2. Avoid unsolicited advice

When friends are struggling, it's natural to want to offer advice or solutions. However, unsolicited advice can come across as judgmental or critical, which can damage the relationship. Instead, ask your friends if they'd like your input or advice. This shows that you value their autonomy and are willing to listen to their perspective. As the Bible says, "Would you give your friends unsolicited advice about how to spend their money or manage their time?" (Proverbs 27:9). Be careful not to come across as presumptuous or judgmental.

3. Focus on support and encouragement

When friends are going through tough times, they need support and encouragement, not criticism or advice. As the Bible says, "Hang in there, keep at it, you can do it" are trite and unhelpful responses when offered by friends and family" (Proverbs 27:9). Instead, offer words of encouragement and support. Let your friends know that you're there for them, and that you believe in them. This will help them feel less alone and more supported in their struggles. By focusing on support and encouragement, you can build deeper, more meaningful relationships with your friends. As the Bible says, "Friends become wiser together through a healthy clash of viewpoints" (Proverbs 27:17). By being supportive and encouraging, you can help your friends grow and develop in their faith.