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The Dangers of Self-Centeredness

When we prioritize others over ourselves when we're feeling overwhelmed, we may be tempted to put our own needs and desires on the backburner. However, this can lead to a deeper problem - the development of self-centeredness. Self-centeredness is a mindset that prioritizes our own interests and desires above all else, often at the expense of others. This can lead to a sense of entitlement, where we feel that we deserve to have our own way, and that others should accommodate our needs. However, this mindset is antithetical to the Christian values of humility and selflessness.

The Importance of Self-Control

Self-control is a vital virtue for Christians, as it allows us to prioritize our values and commitments over our own desires and impulses. When we practice self-control, we are able to say "no" to things that are not good for us, and "yes" to things that align with our values and commitments. This requires a strong sense of self-awareness, as well as a willingness to prioritize the needs of others over our own. Self-control is not about denying ourselves pleasure or happiness, but rather about living in a way that is consistent with our values and commitments.

Prioritizing Others in a Healthy Way

When we prioritize others over ourselves, it's essential to do so in a healthy way. This means recognizing our own limitations and needs, and being honest with ourselves about what we can and cannot do. It also means being intentional about setting priorities, examining our activities for inefficiency, and cutting back on things that are not essential. By prioritizing others in a healthy way, we can cultivate a sense of selflessness and humility, while also avoiding the dangers of self-centeredness. This requires a deep commitment to our values and commitments, as well as a willingness to practice self-control in our daily lives.