Biblical Answer

Answering the Question: What Do I Tell My Kids When They Ask Why Mommy's Always Crying?

When your kids ask why you're always crying, it's essential to be honest and open with them. You want to encourage them to talk about their feelings and concerns, rather than letting them bottle up inside. As the Bible teaches, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). This verse reminds us that God is near to those who are struggling with emotions, and that He cares about our feelings.

In this situation, you could say something like, "Hey kids, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and sad right now. I want to talk to you about it, but I need some time to process my thoughts. Can we talk about it later when we're all calm and comfortable?" This response acknowledges their concern and lets them know that you're willing to discuss it with them when the time is right. By doing so, you're teaching them the importance of emotional intelligence and communication. As Proverbs 15:1 says, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." By responding with kindness and empathy, you're showing your kids the value of gentle communication.

As you talk to your kids about your emotions, use this opportunity to teach them about the importance of cleaning out their hearts every day. You can say something like, "You know, kids, I want to make sure my heart is clean and free from worries, just like we clean our room every day. I want to talk to God about my feelings and concerns, and I want you to do the same. Can we pray together and ask God to help us feel better?" By modeling this behavior, you're teaching your kids the value of spiritual discipline and the importance of talking to God about their emotions. As the Bible says, "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?" (Jeremiah 17:9). By acknowledging the importance of heart-cleaning, you're helping your kids develop a strong foundation for their emotional and spiritual well-being.